It just dawned on me after my last session, why so many girls and women have missing fathers. Duuuuuhhh, this should have been so obvious, but at least I get it now. The generation before me (my mother and her mother) were very inferior to men. They "did what they were told", they obeyed their husbands and they stayed at home cooking and cleaning and were there to please their husbands among other things.
The future generation of females had to learn how to develop their male side (or their yang side or their active side) in order to evolve and find greater balance. Women have chosen to do this karmicly by not having males to depend on who would only further nurture their femininity. This was not what was needed. Women needed to learn how to be strong, to take action, to speak up and to believe in themselves. If women had all the males in their families present and believing in them, they would not get to truly embrace their masculinity on their own. That is why so many women have fathers missing in action!
Let's make a truce with males. Women today spend so much time trying to develop their femininity when what they really need is to develop their masculine strength. This is the way to truly find the Goddess within. The balanced Goddess is powerful when she needs to be and docile when she needs that.